So I received and read my first of 3 books from Amazon. I'm not sure exactly why I picked the books I did. I just thought they seemed interesting. The books I like to read are usually self-help, true story books. Although I LOVED Harry Potter. Anyway this book is called Family UNplanning and I am still in the process of forming my own opinions on the matter. This man and his wife (who have 9 children they homeschool) believe that God should be the planner of your family (i,e NO birth control, abstinence or the like). I found this pill (pardon the pun) incredibly hard to swallow.
Things I liked about the book: I thought it was spiritually uplifting. He quoted a lot of scripture on how much God loves children. I like how he brought up the point that people are having less children just because it is convenient for them and they are selfish (This is not true in all cases, but is a growing trend in our society).
Things I didn't like: It made my blood pressure soar to consider the idea of God giving Ryan and I as many children as he wants. I know this sounds like a faithless thing to say, but I get pregnant easy and am young, so as I read I envisioned me at the age of 40 (having had children at least every 2 years) with roughly 10 children. I think I would be praying to go through menopause at the age of 40 so that I wouldn't have 11, 12, or 13 children. (They don't believe in permanent sterilization either).
My personal view: I feel that what the
LDS church says on the matter is true.
"Children are one of the greatest blessings in life, and their birth into loving and nurturing families is central to God’s purposes for humanity. When husband and wife are physically able, they have the privilege and responsibility to bring children into the world and to nurture them. The decision of how many children to have and when to have them is a private matter for the husband and wife."We each know what we can handle. Why we are choosing to have the amount of children we are choosing to have. If we are curtailing the amount we choose to have for selfish reasons then I do believe that is wrong.
What are your opinions about this issue? I know everyone has views on this subject.